by Wianek
This post was written by my friend Wianek (I only translated it), who will probably become the co-author of this blog.
Actually, I just wanted to comment on the previous post, but my thoughts had grown so much that I decided to pay the duty I promised when I was drunk and write a coherent text, even if it’s only a long comment.
A gay is a human like everyone else and I don’t care what he’s doing in his bedroom. Nice, isn’t it? Internet fora are full of similar statements. It’s even trendy to have such modern opinions. But I do care. I’ve been raised in a conviction that Romeo fucked Juliet, Tristan fucked Iseult and Petrarca wrote his poems to Laura, not to, let’s say, John. I have this problem that I’m just not able to put another Romeo in place of Juliet and I think I’m not the only one. All these attempts to show a couple of perfect gays in a way invented by heterosexual majority (vide Brokeback Mountain) just make me laugh. There’s no male Juliet, Iseult or Laura.
I’m not trying to prove that homosexuality is contrary to culture. I’m more interested, why homosexuals seek acceptance by following the heterosexual myths of love. I wonder, why two gays try to form a couple matching the cultural pattern: mum, dad, dog and some fucking pots on a white fence. Why not create something new, something based on different values?
There is something called fagness; but we all know this soft wrist syndrome, kettle posture and all these manners of a bent fag. We often call it effeminacy, but it’s bullshit, because not any chick behaves this way. It’s not male Juliet, it’s rather a parody of Juliet, it’s a new interpretation of a heterosexual myth.
Fagness is not effeminacy, it’s a cultural guerrilla warfare, which casts doubt on our everyday division into male and female; it’s a question about the essence of masculinity and femininity. It’s not about accepting homosexuals and finding them a new place among our myths. We should rather allow them to create their new mythology, from which, I hope, we all can learn a thing or two.
Heterosexual Wianek, who watches homikus being more and more bent.



First thing You, my Dear Visitor, should know is that this is not the place to practise an emotional exhibitionism of a permanently unhappy and harmed by life gay guy. Nay! Quite the contrary, I live in a perfect harmony with my rather not bad world. Well, what was and is the purpose of launching and writing this blog? Now two things. Firstly - I'd like, at least to some extent, to make this society, yet not one of the best - Polish society, realize that a gay is quite the same human as anyone else. He loves, feels, is happy, is sad, rejoices, learns, studies, votes, has political views, enjoys himself, has friends, works etc. etc. Secondly - I'd like to show that a gay can be happy with himself, his life and his world. Let this blog be my own little contribution to making this world a better place to be in...



3:17 pm
Well this is definetly an opinion…I think heterosexuals underestimate what society, culture and state have given them in automatic.
12:17 pm
There is no such person as a homosexual, only homosexual acts. Stop trying to label people. You are who you are.